Casual vs Polite Korean: Can I Say It to My Boss? | SingSay Korean

Casual vs polite Korean, SingSay Korean
SINGSAY KOREAN
LEARN KOREAN WITH SONGS
EXPRESSION GUIDE
CASUAL OR POLITE?
LESSON
SPEECH LEVELS
THE MAGIC ENDING
-요
Yo
Kei with his hands together, saying sorry

Can I say it

to my boss?

Every song on our albums teaches the casual form.
That is how friends talk.
Here is what to say to everyone else.

ACASUAL
미안해
Friends, Family
BPOLITE
미안해요
Most People
CFORMAL
죄송합니다
Bosses, Teachers

Korean has different ways of speaking
depending on who is listening.

You do not need all of them.
Three levels cover almost every situation.

01

Who gets which level?

FRIENDS, SIBLINGS, YOUNGER PEOPLE
Casual
The form you hear in our songs.
COWORKERS, OLDER FRIENDS, STRANGERS
Polite · add ‘요’
Safe in daily life. Shops, cafes, taxis.
BOSSES, TEACHERS, CUSTOMERS, INTERVIEWS
Formal
Often a different word, not just a new ending.

Age matters more in Korean than in English.
Someone a few years older often gets the polite form,
even if you are friends.

02

Most words: just add ‘요’

This is the easy part.
Put ‘요’ (Yo) at the end, and a casual word becomes polite.

CASUAL
ADD ‘요’ · POLITE
고마워Gomawo
고마워요Gomawoyo · Thank You
미안해Mianhae
미안해요Mianhaeyo · I’m Sorry
맞아Maja
맞아요Majayo · That’s Right
진짜?Jinjja?
진짜요?Jinjjayo? · Really?
몰라Molla
몰라요Mollayo · I Don’t Know
배고파Baegopa
배고파요Baegopayo · I’m Hungry
귀여워Gwiyeowo
귀여워요Gwiyeowoyo · So Cute
웃겨Utgyeo
웃겨요Utgyeoyo · That’s Funny

Questions work the same way. Lift the end:
‘진짜요?’ sounds just like ‘진짜?’, only politer.

03

When ‘요’ is not enough

Some words change completely at the polite level.
These are the ones worth memorizing.

CASUAL
SAY THIS INSTEAD
안녕Annyeong
안녕하세요Annyeonghaseyo · Hello
고마워Gomawo
감사합니다Gamsahamnida · Thank You
미안해Mianhae
죄송합니다Joesonghamnida · I Apologize
몰라Molla
잘 모르겠어요Jal Moreugesseoyo · I’m Not Sure
화이팅Hwaiting
힘내세요Himnaeseyo · Stay Strong
헐Heol
세상에Sesange · Oh My Goodness
좋겠다Joketda
좋으시겠어요Joeusigesseoyo · That Must Be Nice
Learn
these two

‘감사합니다’ and ‘죄송합니다’ are the two lines you will use most in Korea.

Shops, taxis, offices, strangers on the street.
Neither one can be too polite.

04

Keep these for friends

A few words have no polite version at all.
They are reactions, and reactions are casual.

SHOCK
헐
Use ‘세상에’ instead
WOW
대박
Use ‘대단해요’ (Daedanhaeyo) instead
TOTALLY
완전
Use ‘정말’ (Jeongmal) instead

‘헐’ and ‘대박’ are not rude.
They just sound like a teenager talking to a friend.

05

Not sure? Go polite

TOO POLITE?괜찮아요Nobody minds. It just sounds respectful.
TOO CASUAL?반말Banmal. People notice, and some take it badly.

Koreans switch to casual speech together, usually after someone asks.
If a friend says ‘말 놓아도 돼’ (Mal Noado Dwae), it means “You can talk casually with me.”

Until then, keep the ‘요’.

06

Start here

Each of these lessons has a full polite section.

미안해Mianhae“I’m Sorry”
고마워Gomawo“Thank You”
안녕Annyeong“Hi & Bye”
몰라Molla“I Don’t Know”
맞아Maja“That’s Right”
헐Heol“OMG!”

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